Considerate
and Effective Use of Ecunet
The computer-assisted communication we have on Ecunet is a wonderful
way to keep in touch with individual colleagues or acquaintances, and
to share regular business communication. Ecunet helps to build trust
and community among users. The dynamics of this communication,
however, are somewhat different from conversations, paper mail, or
meetings.Please consider the following
suggestions:
1. Size of notes:
a. Notes on Ecunet are most effective
if they are limited to a size that easily fits on one viewing screen
(about 20 lines of 75 characters each). There is no need to type a
"memo format" into your note; your name and the date the
note was posted are automatically included with your note, and
personal notes may include a subject line. Longer notes are needed
from time to time, but please use them sparingly.
b. If you are sending a note to a
number of people, it can be helpful to include the names of the
people who are receiving the note. These names can be spread
across one line, rather then listed vertically, to save space.
c. People with bifocals report it is
easier to read notes that have paragraphs separated by a blank line,
and much easier to read notes that have short paragraphs (e.g. 6
lines or so).
d. Most software makes it possible to include automatically a
signature line on each note you send. A longer signature can provide
insight as to your personality or work, but can also become tedious
to other persons who have to read it regularly.
2. Character sets:
Ecunet is used by a number of
different kinds of machines, and notes are printed on a variety of
printers. Characters that do not appear on the keyboard (e.g. ¢, ½,
£) may look different on different machines, and may print
differently on different printers. Some printers may not be
able to handle those characters at all, and may lock up when
receiving these characters. Please don't use these characters if you
suspect the recipient's computer screen or printer may have trouble
handling them; use a description instead.
3. Confidential Communication:
Ecunet maintains high standards for
privacy and access, but we can't be responsible for what your
correspondents do with your notes. Ecunet restricts access to notes
to those people who are authorized to get them, but once those
people get your note, they can do anything they want with it. (This
is no different from what can happen with a paper letter; once it is
delivered to the recipient, that person can show it to others.)
Ecunet has "public" areas and meetings, as well as
restricted and private meetings. Sending a note to a
"public" area is the same as publishing it in a magazine
or posting it on a bulletin board.
a. If you are sending a private
note (or a note to a small, private meeting), phrase it in such a
way that you would not mind seeing posted on a bulletin board in a
public area, or placed on your supervisor's desk. That just might
happen to it!
b. If a note is truly confidential,
it can be helpful to say so in the note, as a reminder to the
recipient to treat the note carefully. If it is okay to
distribute your note, say that too. Any personal note that you
receive should be considered confidential, unless the person who
wrote it gives you permission for further publication.
c. We know how easy it is to send a
copy of a note to other people, or to print the note and
distribute paper copies. Please resist the temptation, unless you
are given explicit permission to do so by the note's author. This
should apply even in the so-called "public meetings";
just because the author wants you to read the note in that meeting
doesn't mean the author wants you to publish the note in another
meeting, or in your church bulletin, or as part of an article you
are doing for your professional journal.
d. Please show consideration for
the owner of copyrighted material. If you would like to post
copyrighted material online, get the owner's permission first
(most will be happy to supply it) and say so as you use it. This
applies to hymn and song lyrics as well as poems, news articles,
and fiction. When in doubt, treat the material as if it were
protected by law.
4. Anger and other emotions:
There is a surprising immediacy to
this medium that is different from paper communication. Some
emotions, especially anger, can be amplified by the medium; others,
such as irony or humor, can be misinterpreted. Please be careful.
a. All participants are urged to
become familiar with ways of handling disagreements and conflicts.
b. Composing a note in ALL CAPS is,
by convention, a form of emphasis, frequently interpreted as
"shouting" by other users.
c. If you feel that another person
is being inconsiderate or rude in a meeting, consider sending a
friendly, personal note to that person. It is rarely helpful to
respond back in kind in the meeting itself.
d. If you are angry or otherwise
feel a high emotional level while composing a note, you might want
to save the note and come back to it in an hour or the next day.
The content of your communication is likely to be clouded by the
energy of your emotion.
e. If you say something in a
lighthearted or joking way, put the word <grin> or a
sideways smilie face :-) in the note. It may seem a bit like
overkill, but it really does help. Other sideways "emoticons"
you can use in your notes include a frown :-( or a wink;-}.
Including jokes and other lighthearted humor can build a sense of
caring community, so don't give them up altogether; just be
careful that they are not misinterpreted.
f. If you see a note that appears
to have a high anger level, do your best to tone the author's
emotion down in your own mind. Remember that the medium tends to
amplify emotional level, so the person probably isn't nearly as
angry as the note indicates, especially by the time you read the
note.
g. Use common sense, as well as any
communication theory you may know. A person who is in a highly
emotional state can sometimes be brought back to a thinking state
with a question, preferably a question that starts with a word
other than "why". Pick up the content of the note,
rather than the emotion, and ask the writer for clarification of
that content. Acknowledging the author's feelings can help, for
example, "Your note indicates to me that you care deeply
about this subject. How does ..."
h. All of us at one time or another
will post a note which is perceived by someone to be sharp-edged
or inappropriately caustic. Sometimes we catch ourselves
after the fact, or another calls to our attention that a note has
"scorched" a bit. A prompt acknowledgement and simple
"I apologize for any offense taken" is, in such
situations, always appropriate and helps maintain a sense of
community.
5. Hearing and being heard:
Your understanding of communication
theory, and especially listening skills, can be extremely helpful.
In a dialogue, give feedback to the person you are corresponding
with, to indicate that you have thought carefully before giving your
reply. It can be helpful to copy a small portion of their note into
yours, and marking it with greater-than signs, e.g.: > this
is what you wrote to me
One can also paraphrase, or say what
you like about an argument, before you rip it to shreds
<grin>. This technique is particularly important in a mass
meeting where lots of people are discussing something, as your
response to a particular note may be received out of its original
context. Likewise, using "I messages" ("I felt angry
when I read your note") rather than "you messages"
("your notes are garbage") can help improve communication.
6. Spelling and other
unintended errors:
Ignore speling capitaliazation
grammar and style mistakes that others may make. Do your best to
spell properly yourself, but don't fret about it. We are
communicating, not crafting our notes in order to win the Nobel
prize in literature.
7. Sending word processor
documents:
A word processor document can be sent
either as a file (attached or "send direct") or it can be
converted to "text" form and sent as a note. The following
have proven to be workable guidelines:
a. If the file is under two pages,
has little formatting (no footnotes or italicized text), and the
primary reason for sending it is so the recipients can read it or
comment on its content, convert the file to a text file and send
it as a note.
b. If the file is intended to be
edited by the recipient, or formatted for printing on paper, send
it as a "file" (either "attached" for groups,
or, if the file is small enough, using "send direct" for
individuals). (In its native format a word processor document can
contain boldface, special fonts, footnotes, and other formatting
that would otherwise be lost if you converted it to text and sent
it in a note.) If, however, all recipients do not use the same
word processor software, convert the file to "text" and
send it as a note. If you do not know whether all the recipients
have the same word processor, convert the document to text and
send it as a note.
c. If the file is longer than
12,000 characters, the persons you are sending it to will
appreciate it if you learn how to compress a file. Then
"attach" the file to a new meeting, sending the new
meeting to the people you want to get the file. Compressing a
document this way can cut down on the amount of time it takes a
person to download it, saving money and time.
8. Tips for the workplace:
a. Use practice meetings, personal
notes, and private meetings as a secure place to practice
communication skills before trying them on important documents.
b. As a courtesy to others, and to
protect yourself, please be careful to limit your personal use of
Ecunet, especially during work hours, so it does not (appear to)
interfere with your work. Consult your supervisor (if any) if you
have questions.
c. Only you can decide (with advice
from your supervisor, if any) which of the "electronic
meetings" are important to your work and relationships. Please
"leave" any meetings that are no longer useful to you, or
which are no longer active.
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